Ramona Havlat

  • Certified Internal Family Systems Level 3 Practitioner
  • Compassionate Inquiry Professional Training
  • Intimacy from the Inside Out Advanced Trained Practitioner
  • Somatic Internal Family Systems Practitioner
  • Certified Integral Coach
  • Certified Trauma-Sensitive Mindfulness Practitioner
  • Certified Feng Shui Consultant
  • Master's degree in Architecture (Dipl.-Ing.)

Living My Calling

I was born in Hamburg, Germany in 1973 and graduated from the Technical University of Berlin in 2000 with the German engineering degree “Diplom-Ingenieur“ (Dipl.-Ing.) in Architecture, which is equivalent to a Masters of Science degree. Parallel to my architectural studies I completed a training at the International Feng Shui Forum as a certified Feng Shui consultant in 1997, which was followed by a further in-depth Feng Shui training with Master Howard Choy. In the course of my work as a Feng Shui consultant, my focus increasingly shifted from architecture to the person and working with one's own mind. 

Spirituality & Western Psychology

I have been a Buddhist practitioner since 1994 and have received with Lama Henrik a long-term traditional Buddhist training in retreat. Lama Henrik taught me to have an open mind towards all spiritual traditions and he also supported me to integrate my interests in spirituality and western psychology. 

Individual & Relationship Coaching

I have continually explored perception and my own inner development and have furthered my education to holistically accompany others on their journey. I support individuals and relationships in their personal development and use Internal Family Systems, Compassionate Inquiry, Intimacy from the Inside Out, Somatic Internal Family Systems, Integral Coaching and Trauma-Sensitive Mindfulness in the collaboration depending on concerns and interests.

Trauma & Resilience Informed

In all the methods I offer, a mindful and self-compassionate look inward is the basis for any process of awareness and the prerequisite for enabling change. I am trauma and resilience informed and consider in the collaboration the special needs of people who have experienced trauma.

Online Sessions

The methods I offer are ideally suited for online sessions and are available worldwide via Zoom Meeting in English and German. For the collaboration I offer a safe and respectful environment and assure discretion and confidentiality.

Learning & Growing

Some clients I accompany for a short time, some for longer. Accompanying and supporting other people on their journey for a while is a fulfilling and inspiring task for me and at the same time I experience it as a responsibility and motivation to develop myself further. I receive regular training and supervision to keep learning and growing.

Assisting & Consulting

As a Program Assistant for IFS and IFIO Trainings and I have supported others in learning the IFS and IFIO model. As an Intern for the Compassionate Inquiry Professional Training I assist others in learning the CI approach. To expand my skills in supporting and assisting other practitioners, I completed a Clinicial Consultation & Supervision Training with Dr. Lois Ehrmann. During the UK Mental Health Awareness Week I gave an introductory talk on Internal Family Systems and Compassionate Inquiry.

Professional Ethics & Memberships

I am committed to ethical behavior and follow professional guidelines: 

  • Berufsordnung für Psychologische BeraterInnen im VFP 
  • Compassionate Inquiry Code of Ethics for Practitioners 

As a Certified IFS Level 3 Practitioner I am registered with the following IFS organizations:


I am a member of the following organizations and professional associations: 

  • Verband Freier Psychotherapeuten, Heilpraktiker für Psychotherapie und Psychologischer Berater e.V., VEP, registered at theralupa
  • Compassionate Inquiry
  • IFS-Europe e.V. 

Training & Education (among others)

A complete listing of IFS, CI, IFIO, and other trauma-informed trainings I have taken can be found on the following pages: Internal Family Systems, Compassionate Inquiry, Intimacy from the Inside Out, Trauma-Sensitive Mindfulness. Here is a selection as an overview:

  • IFS, Internal Family Systems Training Level 1-3 by Dr. Richard Schwartz, Certified IFS Level 3 Practitioner
  • CI, Compassionate Inquiry Professional Training with Dr. Gabor Maté 
  • IFIO, Intimacy from the Inside Out Basic & Advanced IFIO Training in IFS Couples Therapy with Toni Herbine-Blank
  • SIFS, Somatic Internal Family Systems Training & Practices Series with Susan McConnell 
  • ICC, Integral Coaching Canada, ICF Accredited Coach Training Program (ACTP), Associate Certification Module, Certified Integral Coach
  • TSM, Trauma-Sensitive Mindfulness, The Complete TSM Training with Dr. David Treleaven, Certified Trauma-Sensitive Mindfulness Practitioner
  • Clinical Consultation & Supervision Training with Dr. Lois Ehrmann
  • MMFT, Mindfulness-based Mind Fitness Training with Dr. Elisabeth Stanley
  • MSC, Mindful Self-Compassion Core Skills Training with Kristin Neff & Chris Germer
  • Boundary Crossing & Boundary Violation in Psychotherapy and Counseling, Workshop with Dr. Ofer Zur
  • Hakomi, Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Workshop with Dr. Halko Weiss
  • NVC, Non Violent Communication, Workshops by Dr. Marshall Rosenberg
  • Buddhist Long-term Training in the Karma Kagyu Tradition with Lama Henrik 
  • Feng Shui Advanced Training with Master Howard Choy
  • Feng Shui Consultant Training, International Feng Shui Forum
  • Master's degree in Architecture, TU-Berlin (Dipl.-Ing.)

Important Note

Individual and relationship coaching is of non-medical nature. This includes in particular help in working through and overcoming social, relational, emotional and individual conflicts, as long as these are not pathological. My coaching offer does not replace medical, psychotherapeutic or psychiatric diagnosis and treatment by a medical doctor, psychotherapist or psychiatrist. Please consult your medical doctor in case of doubt.